Gone but not forgotten
Sharing a common bond of loss, around 40 people gathered Monday night in Lehighton to remember children gone from their lives too soon.
Zion United Church of Christ hosted a candlelight service as part of Worldwide Children's Remembrance Day.The event started locally with the help of Lora and Dave Krum after their first son, Dylan, passed on July 15, 2010. The Krums lost another son, Gavin, just over two years later on Nov. 27, 2012."It's a day to observe all children who have died," Lora said. "That is something that is overlooked by society. Around Christmas, anyone who has lost a child close to them might feel isolated and lonely. It's great to be able to come together as a group, remember the children and help each other get through the holidays."Before and after the service, attendees added ornaments dedicated to children to a Remembrance tree. The tree will be displayed in the church throughout the holiday season."It's always a sad thing to know that the number of ornaments keeps growing each year, yet we're happy so many made it out with us tonight," Lora Krum said.The second Sunday in December is designated as Worldwide Children's Remembrance Day. The Compassionate Friends, an international organization that provides support to families after a child dies, initiated the observance.The service was originally scheduled for Sunday, but was pushed back a day due to inclement weather.One of those able to attend Monday was Jeremy Wade of Weissport.Wade said he lost a nephew two years ago and welcomed the time to reflect on the moments they spent together."Everything changes when you lose family, especially young members of your family," he said. "The holidays are tough. It really makes you stop and appreciate everything a little more."Near the entrance to the church, guests could design a snowflake in honor of a child.Monday's service included readings, a candle lighting, music and time for silent reflection.Brothers and sisters who lost a sibling gathered around as the Five Candles of Remembrance were lit from the main Children's Memorial Candle."We hope the church can be a quiet place where you can cry the tears that need to be cried and remember the joy that loved ones brought to your lives," the Rev. Dr. Jennifer Bannerman told the audience. "Whatever you're feeling today, it's OK."Girl Scout Troop 3112 of Palmerton assembled the lantern boxes for the service.Anyone interested in planning, organizing and participating in periodic activities throughout the year to remember children can email
tcfcarboncounty@gmail.com.A steering committee will meet sometime in January to discuss ideas and plans.